another post made me do it (it's about death, so if you're sensitive about it...yeah)

[napolitana869]

my grandma passed away last month and it was the second funeral that I'd been to. It didnt really seem like she was gone until after we took her ashes to the grave yard. When I die I want to be cremated. I've never been to a funeral where the person wasnt cremated. I think that could change the experince a lot