Quote Originally Posted by lil josh
well i have just got back from her house and im pretty down atm
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she miscarried this morning
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i see it as a sign from god that its life was not meant to be.
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Cant stress enough how amazingly helpfull you'v all been, thanks.
Well honestly that is the best thing that could have happened. It's not so much a sign from God as it is from her own young body that she is not physically ready to have a baby. So for all the people urging you two to carry the fetus to term and put it up for adoption, well, ultimately her own body chose otherwise.

And it takes the stress off her not to have had to made that hard decision either way.

My brother went through the same thing years ago and his girlfriend also miscarried within the first 6 weeks of the pregnancy... he still thinks about it a lot, 10 years later, about what could have been but both of them know that the miscarriage was really in some ways an easy way out that lets them both sleep better at night.

I'm sorry to hear what happened even though it is for the best. I'm glad that you are still there to support her. And most of all I'm glad that she is safe and now you will both look at life with just slightly older eyes.

Stinky