I can't tell you to "be a man and raise it" coz I've never been there.. Personaly, I'd urge her to get an abortion, and if not, to put the child up for adoption. That may seem rather irresponsible and selfish, but lets say you did raise the child - teenagers really aren't ready for parenting, its impact halting educational and emotional growth for the teenager, and most likely an awkward childhood for the baby.