Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Sam, I think I've known you long enough to say this to you, and I hope you'll listen real well. You didn't ruin anyone's life. You are a good girl who has made your mom proud. Seriously, you are a loving daughter and have been a gift to her. Don't tell yourself otherwise. You may have been the result of an unplanned pregnancy, but if anyone in those circumstances is guilty of "ruining," it's not the baby. It's the people who let themselves get unexpectedly pregnant. Babies are the innocent ones in these equations. Please don't beat yourself up for having resulted from an unexpected pregnancy or term yourself as responsible for someone else's suffering. We all go through challenges and endure rough stuff, and all kids, even in the best of circumstances, put their parents through agony at times. You and your mom have beaten the odds, and you're a great kid. Your mom loves you, and so so lot of other folks!
aww, thanks, but im completely okay with being my moms accident, thats why i can truthfully say i was, ive accepted that fact and love my mother, thats why i dont want anyone else (lil josh's girlfriend) to suffer like she did,