I have spoke on one similar thread to this, and I’ll pretty much say the same thing.

Lets all stop polling our opinions. For this young lad is not you and he is not here for your opinion but for your advice.

I’m going to do my best to lay out some things to think about and try to make it unbiased but I’m sure it will be a little bit. Sorry for that. So, just so you know I am pro-choice. This means I believe everyone should be able to choose and not be forced to keep it.

You know you have three options abortion, adoption and acceptance.
Here is what I know and what I’ve thought about all of them:

Abortion-
since you know early on that she is pregnant you can use a chemical method. This has some side effects on the woman but I do not believe it is life threatening.(look into this b4 you do it, if you do it)

-Most objection to abortion is on religious and moral grounds. Pro-life people generally believe that the embryo or fetus is a human life and should be held equal to every other human life. Thus they consider it murder.
Yes, birdgril is correct it is a “life” in the way any cell is a life. This is not meant to be against abortion it is just a scientific fact.

-What I think is most important is that any grounds to support or not support abortion are not on scientific grounds it is 100% a matter or opinion and morality. This is why I am so opposed to people shoving their opinions down your throat, the choice is yours.

-Pragmatically if you consider the three individuals (mother, father and the child you create) in the two possible states. The fist having the kid now; the second having the kid in 15 years when you plan it. All three parties are better off in the second situation. This is not ment to be biased just something to consider

Adoption
-if you consider adoption you should consider the effects of child birth on the mother. I’m sure it is very hard on such young girls to have kids.
Is her life at risk? (I don’t know but you should check it out)

-by choosing adoption you avoid sacrificing your morals and avoid much of the negative consequences of having a child this young.
-but, will giving away a child you created affect your psychological state for the rest of your life? Ei. Will you feel guilty

Acceptance

-It will be difficult for you to provide the same quality of life you received for your child, as you are so young. This will make it harder to go to university or even stay in school now. If you choose this I hope you have a loving family to help you.

-I feel it is important for me to highlight the impact or rearing a young child. Young children go through several periods called critical periods. During this time they need certain kinds of stimulus to achieve their potential, physically and psychologically. These stimuli come in many forms and largely involve huge amounts of interaction with their parents and peers. Why I mention this is because you will probably not be in very good financial shape and may not be able to supply them with proper food or daycare and it can have a very significant permanent effect. Just something to think about.
harris7 Reviewed by harris7 on . im 15 and my gf is with baby... well yer im 15 and my gf is pregnant. im nt 2 sure how it happend probz a broken condom or sumfink but basically yer im 15 n ma 14 yr old gf is having a baby what shud i do? plz can this remain in this section, no mention of it outside this section as i dnt want ppl that dnt post hear nt to know bout ma personal life, ty. Rating: 5