im 15 and my gf is with baby...

[420purplehaze420]

I hate to be the one to say this but there's a good she'll miscarry being that young, her body is hardly deleloped enough to properly create a baby.

Thats what I was going to say, Im a senior in highschool and i cannot imagine one of the niner girls having a baby, they weigh about 7 pounds 8 ounces themselves, def not developed enough to support another life.

[napolitana869]

although the outcome was a sad one, it seems like things worked out for the best for the two of you. just remember to use condoms even if she is taking the pill. she only has to forget once for this to happen again, and next time things might not work out in your favor

[Way2many]

well yer im 15 and my gf is pregnant.


im nt 2 sure how it happend probz a broken condom or sumfink but basically yer im 15 n ma 14 yr old gf is having a baby what shud i do?

plz can this remain in this section, no mention of it outside this section as i dnt want ppl that dnt post hear nt to know bout ma personal life, ty.

Damn should have worn a condom, man up on your responbilities now.

[Not Enough Herb]

your lucky man

be smart next time

im your age too man, i know that a kid is the last thing i would want

[dutch.lover]

If she is going to go on the pill, try NuvaRing instead. I have been on birthcontrol (bc) for 2 years now, and NuvaRing is the third one I have tried. It is a low dose bc, so it won't cause any extreme hormonaly changes in her, but it is more effective than any other type of hormonal bc. This is because you insert the ring, leave it in for three weeks, than take it out for a week- there is no failure rate due to improper taking of the pill. If she doesn't take the bc pill at the same time every day, it's failure rate increases. The ring is a lot more reliable in that respect. You can check out their website- there is also a cool program she could download on her computer that pops up a reminder of when she has to insert a new ring, and take out the old one. Very handy! I would definitely consider this method- it is my favorite so far, and it is nice knowing how reliable it is. Using condoms at the same time would also be a good idea, as hormonal bc methods are never 100% efficient.

I hope your gf is doing ok after the miscarriage though, I know that can be very hard for a lot of women.

[WeedyBoyWonder]

ABORT IT. Seriously, dont screw yours and her life up with a kid. If she has it, wether you keep it or give it up for adoption she will be left with streach marks, and at that size because shes young they will look really bad. Just abort it asap, its best for everyone.
Plus personaly i wouldnt like to put a child of mine up for adoption, id hate to think there was a kid of mine in this world and i didnt know anything about it.

[Torog]

ok this is how it happend. we was having sex both slightly drunk i took the condom of so she could give me head then she climbed on top of me and started riding me both of us 4getting about the condom, anyways i bust a nut in her as i went to take the condom of i realised it was not there.

hope this answers your questions and im sorry if it was a bit graphic.

birdgirl i know you quoted me on 'i-could-not-bear...' but you didnt include the rest of that sentance 'the-baby-thinking-its-parents-didnt-love-it'.

honestly i think we only have 2 options and thats 1.abortion 2.keeping it

Howdy lil josh,

The way I see it,for being irresponsible,there's a price to be paid..but it shouldn't be yer unborn child,who pays for the sins of it's parents..it should be you two,who pay the price-instead.

If y'all think that yer adult enuff to engage in risky and irresponsible sex,then y'all are old enuff to put away yer childish things and dedicate yer lives to yer child.

Whatever decision that y'all finally make,it will affect y'all for the rest of yer lives,so choose wisely..be mindful also,that yer gal could die from complications from an abortion procedure(infanticide,in my opinion).

I'm praying that you will come to yer senses and not murder yer child..be accountable for yer bad choices and grow up and be a man.

If I could,I'd adopt yer child and raise it with the love that it deserves..there are many ,who can do such..if nothing else,give them a chance to do so. As for yer gal carrying the child to birth,it's the least that she can do--for her bad choice. In the old days,the girl's father,would have forced you to be responsible for yer bad choice..they called em shotgun weddings..you either got married and put away yer childish things,or ya got yer ass whupped.

Have a good one ...

[Torog]

kk well i have just got back from her house and im pretty down atm

she miscarried this morning

i see it as a sign from god that its life was not meant to be.

once again ty for all your support.

and just incase your wondering i havn't left her on her own she is with her mum and there having a girly day, they assured me it was ok for me to go.

Cant stress enough how amazingly helpfull you'v all been, thanks.

in bold because i know this thread is probably going to carry on and many will probably miss this message.

Howdy lil josh,

I replied to you,before I saw this..apparently God looked into yer hearts and realized that y'all are un-fit to be parents and be trusted with the miracle of a child.

Yer gal,should have some counseling..and you should git some kind of come-uppins for being so irresponsible. Both of y'all,should be grounded and kept away from each other,unless it's under supervision,maybe you should git a vasectomy..if you have so little respect for Life. If I were yer gal's dad,I'd be raising all sorts of heck and I'd try to git criminal charges against ya,like statutory rape.

Have a good one ...

[MastaChronic]

torog
do you know where i might find a video of an abortion taking place?
i would love to watch that happen, seems entertaining.

[Torog]

If she is going to go on the pill, try NuvaRing instead. I have been on birthcontrol (bc) for 2 years now, and NuvaRing is the third one I have tried. It is a low dose bc, so it won't cause any extreme hormonaly changes in her, but it is more effective than any other type of hormonal bc. This is because you insert the ring, leave it in for three weeks, than take it out for a week- there is no failure rate due to improper taking of the pill. If she doesn't take the bc pill at the same time every day, it's failure rate increases. The ring is a lot more reliable in that respect. You can check out their website- there is also a cool program she could download on her computer that pops up a reminder of when she has to insert a new ring, and take out the old one. Very handy! I would definitely consider this method- it is my favorite so far, and it is nice knowing how reliable it is. Using condoms at the same time would also be a good idea, as hormonal bc methods are never 100% efficient.

I hope your gf is doing ok after the miscarriage though, I know that can be very hard for a lot of women.

Howdy dutch.lover,

Yer advice,would be appropriate,if directed at adults..but not so..when we're talking about children having children. Neither of them,has a right to engage in sexual activity of any sort,between each other,as they are both minors.

At least you acknowledge,that there are consequences,that could be heavy.

Have a good one ...