Need Some Advice Please

[JeenYuss]

parents are really just powerless figureheads, like the queen of england, she looks like she runs things but she just looks good an represents

i think at 15 you should (should is the key word, maybe not) be able to be responsible enough to make decisions on your own, i would just tell them and if your parents dont like you smoking weed tell them you dont give a fuck what they say, refuse drugs tests and stuff, they cant legally make you unless your on probation or something

[JeenYuss]

my mom is pretty much one of the dumbest moms

when i come home, baked as hell or something she usually doesnt even say anything, she just asks me if im high at random times, and usually its when i've been clean form a day or 2 so idk

[emkid420]

thanks for all the advice guys~!

[Skink]

seriously sit down with the parent you feel most comfortable with,,,you will gain respect...

[Skrappie]

Take a break dude.

Why cause friction in the home?

[JeenYuss]

well mr skrappie.... i see yr point too

kid these are the 2 choices really

if u feel u can be man enough to talk to them in an adult-to-adult way tell them u do but u quit or w/e do it

my mom knows i smoke n she dont approve
but i told her i was cutting down and that im guna quit soon
worked for me

[notech]

I'm 15 years old and I live with my parents. My parents are strongly against recreational use of marijuana. I don't know why but they just are. Also, about two years ago, when I first tried marijuana, my parents found out. I think ever since then theyve always been suspicious.

If i tell her I smoke, shit would go down. I wouldnt be able to get my drivers permit, she probably would not let me go out nearly as much, etc..
Well now I know she will be always so suspicious of me and everything. I hate the suspiciousness because I'll always be having to worry about her finding out.

Well in conclusion. Last night I was thinking of taking a break, which I really don't want to do. Marjiuana is one things I enjoy most.
Or on the other hand, I was thinking of just coming clean and telling her the truth. But telling her the truth could result in drug tests.
And my third choise was to just keep on doing things how I'm doing them.

So basically I have a pretty big dellemma and asking for some advice.

My advice dude,, take that break that your thinking about,, because by the
sound of things your mom aint going to accept the fact that you tell
her that you smoke and it's your choice and she can either like it or lump it...

You don't need drug tests and restrictions on your lifestyle and freedom,, nor
do ya need your driving lessons and stuff to be fcuked up over the fact that
ya toke now and again.

It's best to take a break now and get all your stuff sorted out over the next
while because it will work out better in the long run. . . .
Hope ya do make the right decision dude. . . .

Peace. . . . :jointsmile:

[emkid420]

yeah man. So basically what I'm thinking of doing is just stopping after my stash runs out. Cause I think its cool for now with my parents, they don't seem like extremly suspicious today for some reason. But eventually I know if I keep toking as much as I do they will find out. So after i finish like the 2 g's I got left, Im going to stop atleast having a stash at home. I'll probably toke at a friends if they have it and im sleepin over or something


Thanks for all the advice guys! Very appreciated!

[BlueCat]

You know I worry about my 3 boys even more when some of my youngest sons friends come over. He has never given me any reason NOT to trust him so I pretty much let him do what he wants but I can't help but worry when I see guys come over wasted out of their minds.

Sometimes I wonder if there are any kids out there with brains....then I see this thread and for the most part the perfectly wonderful well thought out responses and my faith in young people is restored. Thanks guys, you've got it together

[Matt the Funk]

You know I worry about my 3 boys even more when some of my youngest sons friends come over. He has never given me any reason NOT to trust him so I pretty much let him do what he wants but I can't help but worry when I see guys come over wasted out of their minds.

Sometimes I wonder if there are any kids out there with brains....then I see this thread and for the most part the perfectly wonderful well thought out responses and my faith in young people is restored. Thanks guys, you've got it together

Really though, some people just don't obey what there parents say or do a bad job at keeping it secret. I hate coming home really high, because even thought my parents are semi-cool with it, they still don't like it.