I smoked with my Mom on my wedding day some 40 years ago. Sadly, she preferred her Jack Daniels and she basically drank herself to death. My kids are straight to the max (although one looks like a head), so there is no "smoking with the parents" in my house. Wish there was- it would be a good thing. Our kids disapprove strongly of our (Cali-legal) medical/recreational use. They are 27 and 31 but my hubby pays the rent, so all they can do is gripe a bit. Yes, they still live with us, we all benefit financially and since we are all friends as well as family, no big deal. You can't expect folks to always agree on anything- the secret is not to make it into a big deal. There, now you have it from a "toking parents with straight kids" point of view- bet you didn't expect that! Granny's Xmas advice is to appreciate the good that is in all of your relatives (even the ones who drive you up a wall, sometimes-lol) and TELL them what you like about them. - Granny:stoned: