but does that excuse it? i'm really not trying to stir up controversy or anything.... but you say that like it excuses him from it..... c'mon skink sometimes you seem very passive..... what he did is just not right on so many levels.... hell it PISSED ME off, and it wasn't even my kitty that was missing..... i'm sorry skink, it just made me really mad when he did that, i'll let it go