when is it time to kick them to the curb?

[smok3y]

Maybe you should just turn it off on him one day. And be like "Dude you've been playing that game non-stop, do somethin' else for awhile, you don't even hang out with me anymore." and if he gets pissed and leaves or doesn't wanna hang with you, he's probably not your friend. But if he gets pissed then says "Okay what do you wanna do?" then your still cool.

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smok3y Reviewed by smok3y on 12-24-2006. when is it time to kick them to the curb? ok, i need everyone's input on this... cuz i'm not really sure what to do, honestly. ok i have a friend, and i've done alot for him, and he's done alot for me. when he didn't have a place to stay, i've let him live with me, when he didn't have food i've provided for him, when he didn't have cigs. i'd provide for him there as well... in return, i smoke cheap ass cigs, i can basicly go in his pack and take his cigs whenever i want, me or my wife can use his car pretty much whenever we want, Rating: 5

[slipknotpsycho]

ok well, for those who care, and wanted to hear of the update, i tried talking to him about it (for my wife, don't bother asking what was said, it doesn't matter, and i'd rather not talk about it) i was basicly blown off about the whole thing "well you only sit over there on your computer..." ???? i only ever started gettting on my computer when you were over here, when i stated being ignored all together.... so he's going to do for what he's known to classicly do, ignore everything..... so now... i have tried, and i mean TRIED to actrually poor my heart out to him, and am ignored, and basicly everything 'is my fault' doesn't even adress the fact he ignores everything, details spared....


so what do you do, when this person (described above) doesn't want to admit he has a problem, and you ARE his ONLY fix, even if it's pretty much the only friend you have....

[MastaChronic]

a true friend would cut him the fuck off, you talked to him and it didnt work. it was worth a try.
cut the motherfucker off and feel like shit about it, but cut him off.
in a few weeks he'll start to feel better.
if you dont want him blaming you.........fake an internet problem or something, or sell your ps2 or hide your ps2 and tell him you had to go get it fixed cause somethings wrong with it

[Skink]

I didn't know the dude was in your bedroom,,,man you gotta pull the plug,,,you owe it to your wife...

[ericwt]

You know the answer to your question. So does your wife. Your responsibility is to her, not him.

This person is not your friend.

In life we grow. It is time to get out and meet new friends.

[Frivolous248]

Dude, fuck 'em.

You being on your computer is TOTALLY irrelevant, thats where you fucking live! You can do whatever you want. He however, is a guest.

If you don't give him the boot, I will call you a nancy boy and it will hurt your feelings.

So kick his ass out...

[Skink]

Dude, fuck 'em.

You being on your computer is TOTALLY irrelevant, thats where you fucking live! You can do whatever you want. He however, is a guest.

If you don't give him the boot, I will call you a nancy boy and it will hurt your feelings.

So kick his ass out...

Yes,,,and I will supply the pink dress and fairy wand...

[MastaChronic]

we can call him the.....good witch of the north?south? idk

[Nightstar]

Hide the Ps2.

[xblackdogx]

SLIP-
i read this kinda late, i woulda sat him down. go somewhere outside your house (a walk/lunch) and tell him how he is interferring with your life. You can't cut him off b/c he has been there for you! Fri-sun (let the ps2 run) or set up a schedule that is opposite than yours (or your wife's) that he can play. THERE IS ALWAYS A COMPROMISE i hope you find the right compromise though