Wow, I'm surprised this thread is still 'alive'


Anyhow, I'm not going to endorse one argument or the other because I can see merits in both... All I can say is, in this instance, I love her unconditionally.

I dont care if she was a burn victim and in a wheelchair... I would spend the rest of my life taking care of her... I would give her a winning lotto ticket if it made her happy, I would send her my paycheck and live with my parents if she asked. I dont ask for anything in return... I wish I could atleast be her friend but even if she told me she hated my guts and wished I was dead I would still do anything for her.

It doesnt make sense, I've never been that way with any other girl before or after, I'm not clingy, a wuss, a push-over, or anything like that. I feel like I knew her my entire life from the minute we first held hands and laid next to one another on her bedroom floor. Even though I usually dont like people touching me, when I held her I felt like I was 'complete'. I dont mean that in a corny Jerry Maguire kind of way either! The first time we had to 'let go' after meeting the first day I felt this great sense of 'panic' and immediate emptiness and all I could think or feel was to be close to her again.


I also have a 4yrs daughter and I can say I would go to the same extremes (even further in some regards) with my ex as I would for my own daughter. If my ex ever died I already know I would kill myself and be buried next to her (whether she likes it or not!). If I married her it wouldnt be till death do we part but for a eternity together. I've been lucky to date a lot of beautiful and educated women but NONE can hold a flame to her. I know all that sounds obsessive but it truly is different... I know obsessive, and this isnt obsessive... This is a deep deep bond I feel with her... One I cant explain... I never felt it before or after.


Again, I'm 28yrs, I've dated a lot of women, I have a daughter, I would consider myself 'stable' and 'intelligent'... I even saw her recently, after 7yrs, and still didnt waver in what I would do for her... Not even after she just left and didnt say a word. I accepted she doesnt love me anymore but I still and always will love her 100% unconditionally. She is the most beautiful soul I ever met and this world would be empty and meaningless without her... I dont say these things to be over dramatic either. I would be dead in every sense of the word, emotionally and spiritually, if she wasnt in this world with me (even if she isnt next to me).


I hope everyone one day can find that kind of bond in their lives... It goes even deeper then what you feel for your own child... I cant explain it but it is the most beautiful thing I ever felt and a FAR FAR FAR better high then ANY drug I ever did