Great Spirit, the fact is you're a deeply disturbed, distorted individual. People who interact with you know this, and we aren't fascist nations. We're just people who see that your thought patterns are way off the norm. We've seen you distort facts. Threaten to hang yourself. Predict wildly absurd political events that will never happen and distort events that have happened in the past. Even your family worries about your mental health, as you've related before. Also, as you may remember, I used your voluminous paranoiac political rantings as an ongoing case study in the first semester of my medical psychopathology class at med school. So that's also how I and the board-certified M.D.-Ph.D. psychiatry professors who taught that class know you live in Crazyville. And isn't it funny how we've never been granted status as nations at all, much less fascist ones?

You can dream your high-minded dream all you want about ideal, unconditional love and absence of attachments. That's because you can't understand the concept of emotional attachment and can only associate the word "attachment" with material or visual things. You also can't conceive that there's actually a self-esteem foundation in conditioning love upon affectionate treatment from a partner. I know from reading your response in another thread that you've not yet had a successful relationship with anyone, and so you probably can't fathom what I'm talking about anyway simply from lack of real romantic experience. It will not surprise me if you never have any lasting romantic relationships because I suspect you're as impossible to interact with sanely in person as you are in cyberspace.

Come back here with your high-minded relationship aspirations after you've had an actual relationship with a young lady (not just your short sexual attempts with two different partners). Or, better yet, do as my spouse and I have and make a marriage succeed--happily--for 24 years. Then once you have some actual experience upon which to base your theories, you'll be in a better position to discuss real relationships.