Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
First, are you on probation or being drug tested?

Second, something about his offer makes me a little leery, but I think that's because I'm a mom. I mean, is there any possibility that this guy's a pedophile and is interested in you in that way? I'm always suspicious when grown men (or "old guys," as you term this one) are interested in cultivating friendships with adolescent young men and offering them places in which to drink or get stoned, but perhaps his motivations are innocent. Let's hope so.

If you think he's totally safe and above board, I think the best approach is just a direct one. Talk to your neighbor. Tell him you're a cannabis fan but that your friends are losers and your girlfirend is opposed. Ask him if his offer was genuine. If you do decide to smoke at his place with him there, don't get too stoned the first few times so you can make sure you're safe. And make sure you're not the one who's always supplying the weed, if that turns out to be the other part of his motivation. Also, I'm sure you're already planning to do this, but be very discreet about what you're doing and who you talk to about it. If he does turn out to have honorable intentions, you don't want to put him or your new friendship at any risk.
This is not intended to be a flame or anything but it seems that paranoid overprotective mothers (like you?) seem to hear about a old man pedophile on the news or something and then think every old guy is out to get some underage boy butt.

this is a gross and, as previously stated, a paranoid way to be thinking about things. Why is it that a grown man can't spend any time with a younger man without raising suspicions of being a pedophile.

I think that when im older it would be very enriching and enlightening to have a younger friend. because you can stay in touch with youth and keep track of the younger generation which is essentially our future.

I happen to believe that everything is a conspiricy, and in this case the media and "them" are trying to seperate kids from adults because children need a role model, they base their actions on examples they are presented with.

now why would this be benifical to "them"??

well because "they" can use media outlets to present these role models to our younger generation without any interference from the older generation. they use these role models to implant things in our kids, broad social trends and increased consumerism; as well as systematically eradicating any interest in the things that really matter.

so with the government, the media and "them" all throwing out the decoy and model and putting on a mask of simplicity we find that our way of life is corrupted and twisted to benifit "them".


QUESTION EVERYTHING.

(i know im paranoid and crazy but thats what "they" want you to think)

they control you with mind games and hide everything but their fabrications and alterations of the truth.:chainsaw: