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I'm always suspicious when grown men (or "old guys," as you term this one) are interested in cultivating friendships with adolescent young men and offering them places in which to drink or get stoned, but perhaps his motivations are innocent. Let's hope so.
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That was EXACTLY my first hunch too. Be careful....
dammit. just see if he wants to toke, if he does, i dont think he would try anything, im sure his intentions are innocent, but hey, if im wrong. just kick him in the nuts.
Not that invading someones privacy or sexual preferences is in any not immoral,
but does he have a computer? You could do a quick check for any ..strange.. cookies or searches.
This is just the cautious part of me.
I'm a teen, and although we here on the news of creepy pedophiles luring children into their locked basement every once in a while, (a theory I have actually, that most missing people/children end up as basement sex slaves, kept alive for YEARS in some sicko's house) it isn't that hard to beleive that an adult, understanding the teenage mentality and remembering his/her own, wouldn't contribute a little to the delinquency of a minor.
I know I would. (contribute to the delinquency of a minor, sicko)
ugh...enough ranting...
basically my final point is, play it safe, always have a cell phone, and try not to think about those poor kids in basements...
or that everyone around you could be slowly plotting behind your back, slowly gaining your trust, until one day the smiles turn into seething anger behind a locked door, and the brim of the volcano's edge is stained with the true essence of a man.
I think if your old enough to drive you are to old for a pedo,but if he wants all your friends to stop by,,,well??? you have the wit about you to read shit like that,,,I hope...
Protective mom types can only caution,,, you have to read the signs and inturpret them on your own,so walk cautiously and use your head...
Not that invading someones privacy or sexual preferences is in any not immoral,
but does he have a computer? You could do a quick check for any ..strange.. cookies or searches.
This is just the cautious part of me.
I'm a teen, and although we here on the news of creepy pedophiles luring children into their locked basement every once in a while, (a theory I have actually, that most missing people/children end up as basement sex slaves, kept alive for YEARS in some sicko's house) it isn't that hard to beleive that an adult, understanding the teenage mentality and remembering his/her own, wouldn't contribute a little to the delinquency of a minor.
I know I would. (contribute to the delinquency of a minor, sicko)
ugh...enough ranting...
basically my final point is, play it safe, always have a cell phone, and try not to think about those poor kids in basements...
or that everyone around you could be slowly plotting behind your back, slowly gaining your trust, until one day the smiles turn into seething anger behind a locked door, and the brim of the volcano's edge is stained with the true essence of a man.
Lol. Southpark somehow makes it's way into almost every thread rofl.
Nah this guy isn't a pedophile, he's had his oppurtunity more than once. Well you know I don't know? And if he were I could kick his ass and I think comparing our sizes just by eye he probably relizes that so I don't think he would be dumb enough. PLus I always have a knife on my key chain.
When he gets back ima mention weed. He has alot of movies I can just imagine chilling over there smoking and just listening to his stories. He has alot of funny ass stories.
Second, something about his offer makes me a little leery, but I think that's because I'm a mom. I mean, is there any possibility that this guy's a pedophile and is interested in you in that way? I'm always suspicious when grown men (or "old guys," as you term this one) are interested in cultivating friendships with adolescent young men and offering them places in which to drink or get stoned, but perhaps his motivations are innocent. Let's hope so.
If you think he's totally safe and above board, I think the best approach is just a direct one. Talk to your neighbor. Tell him you're a cannabis fan but that your friends are losers and your girlfirend is opposed. Ask him if his offer was genuine. If you do decide to smoke at his place with him there, don't get too stoned the first few times so you can make sure you're safe. And make sure you're not the one who's always supplying the weed, if that turns out to be the other part of his motivation. Also, I'm sure you're already planning to do this, but be very discreet about what you're doing and who you talk to about it. If he does turn out to have honorable intentions, you don't want to put him or your new friendship at any risk.
This is not intended to be a flame or anything but it seems that paranoid overprotective mothers (like you?) seem to hear about a old man pedophile on the news or something and then think every old guy is out to get some underage boy butt.
this is a gross and, as previously stated, a paranoid way to be thinking about things. Why is it that a grown man can't spend any time with a younger man without raising suspicions of being a pedophile.
I think that when im older it would be very enriching and enlightening to have a younger friend. because you can stay in touch with youth and keep track of the younger generation which is essentially our future.
I happen to believe that everything is a conspiricy, and in this case the media and "them" are trying to seperate kids from adults because children need a role model, they base their actions on examples they are presented with.
now why would this be benifical to "them"??
well because "they" can use media outlets to present these role models to our younger generation without any interference from the older generation. they use these role models to implant things in our kids, broad social trends and increased consumerism; as well as systematically eradicating any interest in the things that really matter.
so with the government, the media and "them" all throwing out the decoy and model and putting on a mask of simplicity we find that our way of life is corrupted and twisted to benifit "them".
QUESTION EVERYTHING.
(i know im paranoid and crazy but thats what "they" want you to think)
they control you with mind games and hide everything but their fabrications and alterations of the truth.:chainsaw:
This is not intended to be a flame or anything but it seems that paranoid overprotective mothers (like you?) seem to hear about a old man pedophile on the news or something and then think every old guy is out to get some underage boy butt.
this is a gross and, as previously stated, a paranoid way to be thinking about things. Why is it that a grown man can't spend any time with a younger man without raising suspicions of being a pedophile.
I think that when im older it would be very enriching and enlightening to have a younger friend. because you can stay in touch with youth and keep track of the younger generation which is essentially our future.
I happen to believe that everything is a conspiricy, and in this case the media and "them" are trying to seperate kids from adults because children need a role model, they base their actions on examples they are presented with.
now why would this be benifical to "them"??
well because "they" can use media outlets to present these role models to our younger generation without any interference from the older generation. they use these role models to implant things in our kids, broad social trends and increased consumerism; as well as systematically eradicating any interest in the things that really matter.
so with the government, the media and "them" all throwing out the decoy and model and putting on a mask of simplicity we find that our way of life is corrupted and twisted to benifit "them".
QUESTION EVERYTHING.
(i know im paranoid and crazy but thats what "they" want you to think)
they control you with mind games and hide everything but their fabrications and alterations of the truth.:chainsaw:
I think it is more the times we are living in... That show on dateline does not seem to have any problem finding pervs... it is a crime that has gone on,,, unpunished,,, and hidden for so long that we think it is not there...
I'm a single older guy and I see the way moms look at me in the store,but I respect those moms,the moms I have little respect for are the ones that let their kids run loose unattended...
Caution is a good thing... Walk blindly and you will stumble...
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