First, are you on probation or being drug tested?

Second, something about his offer makes me a little leery, but I think that's because I'm a mom. I mean, is there any possibility that this guy's a pedophile and is interested in you in that way? I'm always suspicious when grown men (or "old guys," as you term this one) are interested in cultivating friendships with adolescent young men and offering them places in which to drink or get stoned, but perhaps his motivations are innocent. Let's hope so.

If you think he's totally safe and above board, I think the best approach is just a direct one. Talk to your neighbor. Tell him you're a cannabis fan but that your friends are losers and your girlfirend is opposed. Ask him if his offer was genuine. If you do decide to smoke at his place with him there, don't get too stoned the first few times so you can make sure you're safe. And make sure you're not the one who's always supplying the weed, if that turns out to be the other part of his motivation. Also, I'm sure you're already planning to do this, but be very discreet about what you're doing and who you talk to about it. If he does turn out to have honorable intentions, you don't want to put him or your new friendship at any risk.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . Neighbor smokes weed and I think is hinting? So this is what happened. 3 years ago this old dude moved in next door. This old dude is an avid traveler and constantly needs his house watched through out the year. So naturally he meets teenager neighbor kid (me) and asks me if I'm up for the task. Sure I say and 3 years pass and were pretty cool and I've been watching his house. So around the 2nd year I start smoking heavily and come to realize my neighbor has a bong and a hookah in his house, but being as responsible as I am never Rating: 5