...I'm confused...is he back at Baghdad ER ?....after taking a recent leave ?...
..and now you both have daily contact by E-mail ?

...hell...my mother never even wrote me a letter.....

...but if he is concerned about talking to the medical people....go first to the special forces doctors..then/or..the Chief Nurse...second....the chief nurses I knew....were the smartest old bitches...that I have ever met...things they told me, I should do.....I still do...

..I don't know if this makes any sense to you or not....I have never done this before...except in my head...