What do girls like to see in a guys personality?

[Skink]

Yeah you're better off pretending you have no car and being like, "no I don't believe in polluting the environment plus I'm training to be an Olympic cyclist"... some girl WILL go for that!

You mean act like Al but,,,not look like him,,,right???

[stinkyattic]

Al... Yankevic? Noooooo... Smart-funny- WIERD. Yeah. Totally NOT doinkable, sorry, no matter how rich he may be.
I'm thinking snobby "everything I own is Titanium and I shave my legs have like 0.6% body fat and refuse to own a car" (like my high school boyfriend! Ack! That's who I was after when I was 16! Yikes!)

[gabee42ee]

i think its looks to get you hooked then they get really happy when they see your money and your cars... but that only gets girls for a ittle while you have to have more then that to keep them around

[snicklefritz1825]

My type of guy is the guy who gives me all the attention. Not really spending lots of money. Somone who respects my feelings and actually cares what is going on in my life. Not self centered. Most important thing is spend time with me. And when I cry hold me and tell me everything is gonna be okay. Gots to be funny but can be serious. And good morals that is an important one. I like a guy who is serious about life. It is not hard guys if a girl can't love you for that she is a bitch that ain't worth your time.

[stinkyattic]

....the guy who gives me all the attention. ....respects my feelings and actually cares what is going on in my life. Not self centered. ..... Gots to be funny but can be serious. And good morals that is an important one. I like a guy who is serious about life. .....

Yeah I think these are all good solid truths for a good relationship at any age!

And I LOVE your username. My mom had a cat named snickelfritz when she was living in Paris... he loved lentils... why do I know this? Durrr...

[Skink]

I love lentils too...

[birdgirl73]

That's a good tip, Iameatingjam--talking. Girls tend to be more communicative, and so we often feel more comfortable with guys who're the same way. I never knew where I stood with the silent types, but when they actually told me what they were thinking or feeling, I enjoyed that. Still do.

[Skink]

I'm the silent type... Chicks leave after 15 minute of it...

[liberiamom]

Well Skink darling you can't just sit there without talking.

Either you have to do something that is cool to watch (build, grow, cook, create) so then your quiet ways won't be the focus (my hubby is both a chef and an ice sculptor, so you see it works.

Or, use your eyes as soulful connections to attract her, listen to her speak as if she is a genius, look at her as if she is a sex goddess, and when it comes time to kiss her, lose your fingers in her hair and kiss her slowly, passionately, but of course, not sloppy. That method also has also worked very well

[snicklefritz1825]

And I LOVE your username. My mom had a cat named snickelfritz when she was living in Paris... he loved lentils... why do I know this? Durrr...

Hehehe that was my aunts based houd's name. So my dad and bro decided to give it to me as a nick name.