Dutch Lover,

I applaud your decision to inform her and let her make her own choice. Before thinking about dosing someone else...a person should all think back to their first euphoric experience with cannabis and then ask themselves what that experience would have been like had that feeling come out of nowhere & had no explanation that you could fathom? Not good....and certainly not a way to introduce someone to such a wonderful plant.

I'm a chronic pain patient/medical marijuana patient here in the US...I'll spare you the details but I will say that if she is in as much pain as you say she is I believe she will willlingly try cannabis. I know there are days when I'd try anything...and I know I'm not alone in that feeling...

good luck in your quest. (and be prepared to buy some gardening tools if she digs it!)