so what if he reads? When im sober, which is most of the time, i like to read, write, play my guitar, watch tv, go outside--camping, hiking, chilling, whatever. In the summer i can spend hours outside at night looking at the stars. I like to take astrophotos with my scope. The list goes on man, just do what you enjoy. If you are content, you will find something that just relaxes you, something that isnt a drug.