oh, okay, then he is a complete idiot, but he cant be blamed, he doesnt know any better, if he were 16-17 or older, then he has no excuse, but 14 yr olds, u cant hold anything chick related against them....... im guessing ure around the same age, soon enough he'll snap out of it (hopefully before he does anything stupid) ure job as his friend is to help him snap out of it, but dont be too forcefull, coz that could lead to a fight and he may never speak to ya again, seen it happen, and also when he does snap out of it, not to hold anything he does against him (unless he does something very stupid, worst case scenario, i think u might know what that is, if he does that stupif thing, kick his ass)