You have said he lies to deceive, wishes to pursue a potentially dangerous, (possibly semi-crazy) virgin with a father who will hate him on sight, over-does his pot (bet he binge drinks, too) and he enjoys his ignorance where he could become educated, even on a "happy" subject. And if this is the case, he is lacking sense. My bet is he will also try to cheat on her. Since he isn't too bright, she will catch him in one or the other or both (wouldn't THAT be a scene!), throw a hissy-fit, and turn his ass in! Stay clear!

And maybe you need a few more intellegent friends? Dumb, intellectually lazy, and sleasy? That boy sounds like trouble! You deserve a better friend! Your questioning his lying, shows me that you are a better class of human being, than he is. To quote my grandfather, a minister, "If the truth won't do, then something is wrong." I want you got get a joint, find a quiet place, and "play" a game of "What Comes Next?" Just go through some likely senarios of the things that could happen. It's pretty well a given that if they get together, she will find out- lifestyles are hard to hide. Play through her possible actions. She's a "father pleaser", she'll tell him ALL, eventually. --Learn to think ahead and you'll save yourself some grief. Good luck- Granny :stoned: