Instead of getting it chemically fucked with and stuff..get yourself a blow dryer and this thing.. http://www.ciao.co.uk/Vidal_Sassoon_VS184__6337955 ... I use it and it basically gives you waves in virtually minutes. the "Frizz" is easy to get, by back blowing your hair, or flipping your head upside down while blow drying it and brushing backwards. An even easier way to get frizz is to stop using any conditioning products on your hair, it'll eventually dry out and you'll have frizz. I wouldn't recommend that because dry hair is prone to breaking and is just plain unhealthy in the long run. I don't think he's in the process of dreading his hair though and I don't really understand why any of you guys would think that or why you'd start an arguement over it.