Sweetie, don't be in too much of a hurry to get hitched! You need a little time to figure out just who is the right dude! As for the dude you are interested in, he has commitment issues (right there you're in trouble) and he "is stupid" (BIG turn off in my book). Do you want your kids to be dumb like he is and have an absent father? That's just what you'll end up with unless you get your head on straight! At least pick a smart commitment-phobic- that way your kids, as you raise them as a single mom, will at least, be smart! Goof around a little, it's Xmas- go to some parties. Forget him, he isn't worth your time! - Granny