Girl help

[Nailhead]

chances are if you are in the friend zone, you're already screwed. If she really liked you and knew you for so long don't you think she would have made an initiative?

I had a similar experience in high school, I was head over heals for this girl. I was very close to her for years, but never took it further. Trust me, you will regret not trying. If she doesn't like you that way, there is a good chance it will hurt/ruin your friendship. But take it from me, it is worth it to know!

I still regret never asking her out, I never let her know, and now she is married. So my time is long gone now, and honestly I'm not the same guy I was when I was head over heals for her so even if the chance came, its too late for me.

Just grow some balls, and ask her. Don't be a pussy about it, usually if you are her friend its because she doesn't think of you as dating material, so you gotta show her you are dating material, IE you are a man. It'll be worth knowing, even if she turns you down.

[Amun]

if you like her ask her out.

no sense in wondering for the rest of your life.

and if shes hugging and holding your hand she most likely likes you anyway, unless you waited too long and she stuck you in 'friend zone'.

ask her out, and if she says no, who cares...its her loss...

dont be a wuss.

[NotAFattyDotCom]

If you don't do it. I will.

[Jim Morrison]

god damn man you piss me off. i had the same situation as you and i waited too long and she fell for another guy. this was my first relationship i dont really try with women cause it always turns out the same with me.

we had a friendship then i found out she liked me and we had a great thing for months like we were dating but we werent, i was afraid to ask her out even though she called me everynight and told me she loved me all the time before hanging up.

then one day she decided to throw it away for some guy she knew for a month and dumped 2 weeks after going out with him for another guy who dumped her and hurt her bad and she moved from guy to guy making out with random guys she hardly knows and then going back to the guy who dumped her whos shes still with now.

(thats when i realised shes just one of those girls that dosent have a father and will accept love from any guy who gives it to her and when they use her for sexual favors and stuff like that it fucks her up in the head more then she already is, so i feel bad for her but its what she chose for her life, and shell regret it when shes knocked up and the guy ditches her just like her father did to her mother.)

i was heartbroken and depressed for a long ass time it still bothers me today thinking back on it, i really loved this girl and thought i could make her life better for her by taking her away from the guys who just try to get in her pants. im was a nice guy.

i got over it by ignoring her and realizing theirs no such thing as lovem i should just be like the guys that just want sex and no relationships with that kind of mentality i got my first handjob but then the chick i was with stoped talking to me for a month and went back to college and i found out she was sucking some guy off a week after i was with her so my luck sucks. the only girls that like me are fucked up in the head and psycho bitch whores.

im staying single and the only love intrest i need is mary jane

sorry for being so long but i got a little carried away in my sleep deprived state and just wanted to show you what happens when you wait to long

[420purpHAZE420]

ok, so i guess i had this coming...it turns out she almost %100 used to like me and i guess i lost my chance...now she likes another guy who is one of her bestfriends (also one of mine) and i kno he likes her back...we just went on vacation together and she spent like no time with me and most of it with this guy/other guys, which just ruined my day everytime...now im back and i just cant stop thinking about how she doesnt like me and i have no chance anymore, i really think im heartbroken...idk what to do i feel like shit and dont kno how to make it better

[thcbongman]

*claps*

You did it! Be proud of yourself.

Getting rejected sucks. But it'll make you stronger once you stop hurting. Shake it off and try it again when you spot a hottie. It's not the end of the world man. Just look at the positives, and it's brings you happiness.

[ReUp]

Reject her back. See how much she doesn't like you when you never see her. Eventually she will realize that she misses you. The best way to cure heart ache is through time and distance. Win/win situation either you cure your heart ache or she realizes how madly in love with you she is. Just an idea. It seems to me she has taken you for granted.

[420purpHAZE420]

i never got rejected...i just never asked her out...this is why i never asked her out, i didnt want to ever feel this shitty

[B.Basher]

Lol, come on man. You didn't even do anything and your hearts still broken?

Just think of it as a lesson. Sooner than you think you'll find another crush and be in the same situation. When that happens, just remember to hurry it up instead of thinking about it too hard. These things arn't meant to be pondered hardcore. When you like someone, get the fuck in there.

I'm more dissapointed than you, i've been following this thread for ages waiting for something to happen .

Chillax with your close friends and get high.

[thcbongman]

Time to apply what cannabis smokers are apparently known for.

Peer Pressure!!!!

Cmon man, you got me all excited, but you didn't do it

Now that you are hurt at nothing, what do you have to lose? You tell yourself she doesn't like you, but how are you certain if you didn't ask her out?

Now or Never. Summon the cajoles and do it. Otherwise we'll all rag on you forever! muhahahahhahahaah.