Quote Originally Posted by napolitana869
dont do that. if she doesnt feel the same way and you make a move rather than ask i think you would be risking your relationship as it stands right now. if there was more like a 75% chance she felt the same way then this would be an option you might want to consider, but for what you think the odds are now it might be taking too much of a chance.
What do you want him to do, do nothing or talk it out. That is the perfect way of telling the girl that he is a take charge manly man, by asking her if she feels the same way because he can't tell. He needs to take charge and show a little bit of fire, that he isn't some weak male but a manly man who knows what he wants and takes care of business. If he is wrong and he goes through this long talk about how he has feelings for her and blah blah blah and she says no how is he going to unopen that can of worms. "Oh, I was just kidding." If she doesn't feel the same way that talk will send her running. Maybe you want him to call Maury Povich and go on one of those "I have a secret crush shows" A small kiss that goes unreturned after they smoked can be brushed off more easily than a talk that he obviously has to come up with over time or had to think about for a while before he told her. Since he is in the dangerous friend zone, the kiss will show her some passion and fire. It is just a fucking kiss, but if she feels the same it will be so much more.