Girl help

[420purpHAZE420]

ok, so theres this girl that i really like...like i cant stop thinking about her...but i dont know if she likes me and just the thought of her saying no scares the shit out of me, so im asking you guys what you think

shes been my best girlfriend for about 2 years now, but for like the past year ive really liked her. i always just told myself to get over it, but since the beginning of this school year i think she may have started liking me back.

basically she mite be the hottest girl in my grade, so guys are always hitting on her in my school and shes very flirtatious back, but i know that she really would never touch any of them. we spend a lot of time together in school and we spend every saturday night together. a lot of ppl think like we are about to go out with eachother bc they always see us together, but im really not that sure. when we are together sometimes she will be very affectionate and hold my hand all the time and hug me all the time, but then there are other times when she wont even let me hug her. whenever someone brings up us going out she always just like laughs and says to the person your so weird. my bestfriend says he thinks she likes me, but my bestfriend isnt so close with her so he can never really know besides from what he sees. everyday after school she usually texts me at least once and calls a lot also and will always im me (i try not to text im her or call her bc i dont want to seem like i have a huge crush on her). I really like her, so what do you guys think i should do?

420purpHAZE420 Reviewed by 420purpHAZE420 on 12-12-2006. Girl help ok, so theres this girl that i really like...like i cant stop thinking about her...but i dont know if she likes me and just the thought of her saying no scares the shit out of me, so im asking you guys what you think shes been my best girlfriend for about 2 years now, but for like the past year ive really liked her. i always just told myself to get over it, but since the beginning of this school year i think she may have started liking me back. basically she mite be the hottest girl in Rating: 5

[dutch.lover]

well from a girls perspective, it is generally very flattering when a guy asks us out. i think you should just go for it, and ask her out. worst thing that could happen is she says no- but you two sound so close that i don't think she would freak out or run for the hills if you ask her.

and it does sound to me like she is into you. all that affection and attention she gives you sounds hopeful... although you do need to ask yourself if she treats everyone that way, or just you.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Get it over with dude. If she says yes, great! If she says no, tell her that this doesn't change anything you had with her before that. Easy-Peasy-Lemon-Squeezy!

[420purpHAZE420]

yea thats the part that confuses me bc i think that she does treat every1 that way if it was just me id know she for sure likes me, but its not. the thing is she definitely does it to me the most also, like were always together...a lot of times she asks me to eat lunch with her(just her) in school, which is kinda weird bc every1 usually just eats together. i think i mite just be scared to ask her out, but there is defintely a chance she will say no, idk, i guess im just being a pussy lol

[budsmoker only]

seriously dude just ask her, if you like her a lot then there shouldnt be a problem with it.. and if she says no then you will know that it just wasnt meant to be and you can still be really good friends.. and just have some confidence in yourself bro..

[420purpHAZE420]

u guys are all right, any suggestions on how to ask, i dont want to fuck this up...wow i sound really gay right now lol

[budsmoker only]

just say what you feel about her, be honest with her and tell her how you really feel and what not

[420purpHAZE420]

yea, hopefully i will ask her out this week and not pussy out, thanks for the help though...ill deff let u guys know how it goes

[iStaaHi]

NOOOO,, do not do it, i did that once, only once tho, cuz i think its best to just be freinds if the girl is a really close freind, i dont know tho its just me,
i asked a girl out that was my freind for a couple of years and she said yeh and it was all cool but she thought it would ruin our freindship cuz relationships tend to do that with people, sometimes

[dutch.lover]

^what you say is valid, however no one likes to live their life regretting something. what would happen if purple haze didnt ask her out, but then 3 years later when he has a diff gf, she comes up to him and is like "btw i had this hugggge crush on you back in...." that has happened to me many times and it sucks.