Quote Originally Posted by 420purpHAZE420
ok, so theres this girl that i really like...like i cant stop thinking about her...but i dont know if she likes me and just the thought of her saying no scares the shit out of me, so im asking you guys what you think

shes been my best girlfriend for about 2 years now, but for like the past year ive really liked her. i always just told myself to get over it, but since the beginning of this school year i think she may have started liking me back.

basically she mite be the hottest girl in my grade, so guys are always hitting on her in my school and shes very flirtatious back, but i know that she really would never touch any of them. we spend a lot of time together in school and we spend every saturday night together. a lot of ppl think like we are about to go out with eachother bc they always see us together, but im really not that sure. when we are together sometimes she will be very affectionate and hold my hand all the time and hug me all the time, but then there are other times when she wont even let me hug her. whenever someone brings up us going out she always just like laughs and says to the person your so weird. my bestfriend says he thinks she likes me, but my bestfriend isnt so close with her so he can never really know besides from what he sees. everyday after school she usually texts me at least once and calls a lot also and will always im me (i try not to text im her or call her bc i dont want to seem like i have a huge crush on her). I really like her, so what do you guys think i should do?
I can see this ending horribly. That's what happened to me when i tried to go back out with my ex g/f, we were so close, like i've never been closer with any other girl then her. I was so certain that she would say yes that i didn't prepare myself enough for rejection. After she rejected me and i left her house i broke down in tears, that's the first time i've cried in so long. Look man, i really hope she does like you back but once you're in that friends zone it's SO hard to turn it around. My advice is to move on, find another girl, this will potentially make her jealous and then you may get what you want anyway.