Girl help

[hewhispers]

(I can not believe THIS is my first post here.)

I am assuming that you're young.
From what I know...girls that have guy-friends keep that guy as a friend.

But here's a way to find out if there's more than that possible...
If you spend one-on-one alone time with her.....do 1 of 2 things.

1. Simply and in an off-handed casual way ask her "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" Because its a hypothetical question...there's no rejection there, which is what you're afraid of and why you're stalling.

"Asking her out" is very stressful and puts her and you on the spot.

If you really have not balls....

2. Simply and in an off-handed casual way ask her "How would you feel if tried dating each other?" Again...because its a hypothetical question...there's no rejection there, which is what you're afraid of and why you're stalling.

Good luck, chief.

[420purpHAZE420]

ok, so last nite we were at my friends house and she was sitting on me/my chair for most of the time...we all smoked so we had the munchie, so my friends decided 2 go get food, we took the elevator down, but she had 2 wait 4 her ride home bc she didnt want to go get food...so of course i offered 2 wait with her, and like all my friends started going so it was just me and her and shes like u should really go with them, i dont mind waiting my ride will be here in 2 seconds, so i was like no seriously i wana wait with u its not rite to leave u alone, then she was like just go and i was high so i was just like fine im sorry, bye and ran to catch up with my friends...so wat do u guys think she didnt wana be alone with me bc she thought i mite make a move or she really just didnt want me 2 leave my friends or mabe i shouldve stayed and was just stupid?

[thcbongman]

I think you came off a little overprotective with the "i wanna wait with you, it's not right to leave you alone." Were you in like the ghetto? Was it dark? Otherwise it sounds silly.

Be cool, and chill ask her out for christ sakes. Hang out, make her laugh, take a deep breath and ask. It's not the end of the world here. It's the only way you'd have a chance to go out with her: ask. Otherwise, it won't happen, unless Apollo appears and shoots her.

[420purpHAZE420]

yea i kno i gotta ask, its really pissing me off like everytime im like im gunna do it, but then we start talking and i get scared...and i wasnt trying to make it seem like i was protecting her, i just was trying to be a gentleman

[Its a Plant]

Honestly man, things aren't looking too good. He-who-whispers had some good advice, too. I'd probably try that before acting a fool again.

And if Apollo does shoot her, it's not the end of the world. Then you can get his autograph. ~

[peaceandlove420]

Wip it out and she what she does.

[thcbongman]

Intent and perception are 2 different things. We all can see your intent. The way you came off is well, over-protective, forced, ya know?

Ease up. The more relaxed, the more fun you are having, the better chance she'll agree.

[napolitana869]

I think that you're over thinking things at this point. you've gotta relax

[JeenYuss]

i feel bad for you

the girl obviously wants you


if you tell yourself that about any female she will most likely become attracted to you... im not sure if this will work but it does for me... it could possibly have something to do with my looks and the fact that i last a while in bed

just be cocky and KNOW she likes you, dont THINK she likes u

example:
one night i'm at this party, a friend of mine invites this really fine female to the party, hoping that he has a chance with her
i spit some mad game, do ma thang thang etc.
we end up leaving together
she gives me her number and tells me shes getting a hotel room to party tomorrow
next day
i text message asking what hotel shes going to
later that night
arive at hotel... no party... just me, her, an her sister(who was in the other room cuz it was a suite)
she hands me $100 and says hang onto it for her
this is where i fucked up
i invited a few friends over to drink with me(she paid for all the drink)
me n her sister go get sum drink
i come back to the room, my homies i invited are there
we drink, have fun, etc.
i lay back on the bed for a second
out of nowhere she jus starts making out with me
for no reason
we would have F-ed if there werent all the people there(see i fucked up)
so we end up drinking at my gpas house with a few ppl the next day(my gpa went to mexico or suttin idk)
got somewhat lit, then we go off to the bedroom
a few hours later we re-emerge, smile big as hell on her face
so we end up doing this for a while, jus hangin out with each other at random parties, getting lit, f-ing, etc.
i tell her "i bet u all in love wit me huh"
she replies "no"
i reply back "yeah but u guna"
so we drop the subject, start hangin out more, blah blah blah

that was about 3 months ago

we're pretty much bout ta get married soon as i turn 16(shes a year older then me)

happy ending

thats what you get for being cocky



:rasta:

[420purpHAZE420]

yea i did that this summer, and i got head from the 2 hottest girls on my vacation trip, being cocky definitely works

the problem with this girl is i think she likes me, but shes not the type of girl that is going 2 make it really really obvious, especially since were such good friends...the doubt in my mind is what keeps scaring hopefully soon i will be able 2 grow some balls and ask her out or make a move lol