Girl help

[insanity]

Go for it... I'm asking a girl out from the dorms this week when she comes to see me, and quite frankly I'm expecting rejection... but I refuse to live my life regretting not having balls.

[FakeBoobsRule]

fakeboobs...i didnt see ur post, that is a possibility, but i think its 50/50 on whether or not she likes me and i just need to ask so i can get over her if she doesnt like me back

Don't ask or get all feely feely and spill your guts out. You have known her for 2 years, make a move and kiss her. If she feels the same way about you she is probably wondering if you do too and if she does feel the same way, she will kiss you back. This is the best way to find out. Also, if she doesn't then you can just be like I don't know what got into me instead of spilling your guts and having a huge awkward moment instead of a small one. The kiss is the best and quickest way to find out if someone likes you.

[napolitana869]

Don't ask or get all feely feely and spill your guts out. You have known her for 2 years, make a move and kiss her. If she feels the same way about you she is probably wondering if you do too and if she does feel the same way, she will kiss you back. This is the best way to find out. Also, if she doesn't then you can just be like I don't know what got into me instead of spilling your guts and having a huge awkward moment instead of a small one. The kiss is the best and quickest way to find out if someone likes you.

dont do that. if she doesnt feel the same way and you make a move rather than ask i think you would be risking your relationship as it stands right now. if there was more like a 75% chance she felt the same way then this would be an option you might want to consider, but for what you think the odds are now it might be taking too much of a chance.

[FakeBoobsRule]

dont do that. if she doesnt feel the same way and you make a move rather than ask i think you would be risking your relationship as it stands right now. if there was more like a 75% chance she felt the same way then this would be an option you might want to consider, but for what you think the odds are now it might be taking too much of a chance.

What do you want him to do, do nothing or talk it out. That is the perfect way of telling the girl that he is a take charge manly man, by asking her if she feels the same way because he can't tell. He needs to take charge and show a little bit of fire, that he isn't some weak male but a manly man who knows what he wants and takes care of business. If he is wrong and he goes through this long talk about how he has feelings for her and blah blah blah and she says no how is he going to unopen that can of worms. "Oh, I was just kidding." If she doesn't feel the same way that talk will send her running. Maybe you want him to call Maury Povich and go on one of those "I have a secret crush shows" A small kiss that goes unreturned after they smoked can be brushed off more easily than a talk that he obviously has to come up with over time or had to think about for a while before he told her. Since he is in the dangerous friend zone, the kiss will show her some passion and fire. It is just a fucking kiss, but if she feels the same it will be so much more.

[fikusroot]

It sounds like you are already going out. Do you just want the friendship with benefits? I've found if you want something long enough and keep doing little things to get it the planets will align and good things will happen.

[420purpHAZE420]

yea we really are basically going out minus the sexual part, and i dont think the kiss thing is a good idea

and freezland dont worry i dont care if u steal the thread, but keep us updated tho bc it really sounds like were talking about the same exact thing

[fikusroot]

Just ask her "so what are we?" and see what she says.
You should try to give us a better picture of this girls personality. She sounds like one of those girls that likes to get a lot of attention. Find out what her friends think. It's not a matter of you being a pussy, it's a matter of knowing exactly where you stand and knowing how into you she is. If you know shes really into you than asking her out wont be a problem.

[420purpHAZE420]

shes kinda like free spirited, doesnt care wat ppl think, but shes pretty hot and i dont think she really knows it, i dont really kno wat ur looking for but if u ask questions i will anser

[ronjohn420]

i agree with its a plant and weedboywonder???:stoned:

just ask her on a date, its like sayin "hey do you want to go there"(in relationship terms) without goin to far...

if you kiss her and she really doesnt like you like that ,it will...
1. make you look bad
2. embarrassed like hell(no one wants a kiss rejected)
3cross the boundries
4

but hey if she calls you her b/f, she obvisoly diggin you (or shes just weird) j/k

so just ask her on a date and when she implies on (do you mean like together just say yes and start it from there

it sounds to me like your cool and doing the right thing

good luck,
Ron

[napolitana869]

What do you want him to do, do nothing or talk it out. That is the perfect way of telling the girl that he is a take charge manly man, by asking her if she feels the same way because he can't tell. He needs to take charge and show a little bit of fire, that he isn't some weak male but a manly man who knows what he wants and takes care of business. If he is wrong and he goes through this long talk about how he has feelings for her and blah blah blah and she says no how is he going to unopen that can of worms. "Oh, I was just kidding." If she doesn't feel the same way that talk will send her running. Maybe you want him to call Maury Povich and go on one of those "I have a secret crush shows" A small kiss that goes unreturned after they smoked can be brushed off more easily than a talk that he obviously has to come up with over time or had to think about for a while before he told her. Since he is in the dangerous friend zone, the kiss will show her some passion and fire. It is just a fucking kiss, but if she feels the same it will be so much more.

If he wasnt such good friends with her already I think that he should go with what you're saying. I just got he impression that he didnt want to risk the friendship as it stands now. If she really just wants to be freinds a kiss would cause more damage than just talking to her. I think your way would work well for the other guy who was in a similar situation though.