Quote Originally Posted by Storm Crow
A child who likely will blame you as being the cause of the divorce? Having a child involved changes the whole story! Anyway,it is to your advantage to be as patient as you can, it's only a matter of time until she leaves him. - Granny :stoned:
Ahh Storm Crow you are too wise.
I myself am the child of a marriage that ended in part because of unfaithfulness. I still scorn the 'other party' despite having forgiven the parent.... If the parent and the 'other' had ended up married, I would have been VERY miserable and full of anger for that person.

The only way to go through life is with honor and honesty.

If she is unhappy, why is she still sticking around? Is there an ulterior motive [security]?

Why can't she just shit or get off the pot?

And you... you have to respect the sanctity of marriage in your own way and not let your feelings harm her family, who are surely already suffering from the husband problems.

If she cheated on him with you, would you ever trust her?

If she leaves the marriage before she is good and ready to make that decision on her own without your involvement, will she eventually regret it and resent your involvement?

You just have to wait. Tone down the romance and remember that this isn't a high school sweetheart any more, this is a grown woman with a child.

Tread lightly and use your judgement.