Cool down the tone of your emails, just try to continue it as a friendship for now. If her husband is the way I think he is, it is only a matter of time before he blows it again. Once, a woman can forgive, twice is a whole 'nother story. And ask yourself, seriously, can you be a father to her child? A child who likely will blame you as being the cause of the divorce? Having a child involved changes the whole story! Anyway,it is to your advantage to be as patient as you can, it's only a matter of time until she leaves him. - Granny :stoned: