Quote Originally Posted by Skink
IDK if you know how ignorant you just sounded here...
What he's saying is that it isnt fair to the child if you try to raise them and dont have the resources to do so, which I agree with. Being a man in this situation doesnt have to mean raising the child though (I dont mean leave the mother and the kid on their own though, thats the worst thing he could do). In situations like these adoption is a really good solution, if the mother thinks that she would be able to give the child up when the time comes. I think a lot of males (I'm not saying anyone here just in general) dont understand how hard it can be to give your baby up to strangers after you've carried the child for 9 months even though you'd be doing the right thing. Emotionally I dont think I could ever do it.