Well here's my input. I'm 20 years old and I have a daughter that is due March 25, 2007. pretty much as soon as the mother found out she split to another state. She already has a son. When she told me I was only 19 and the thought of abortion came to mind but you would be surprised on how hard that is to actually do when the time comes. I had talked to her she wanted to and I told her if she did want to then she could. But then we talked somemore and well now I have a daughter. It's not the end of the world just a big step in your life that just makes you do things. It is really no different than anything else. You just have to accept your responsibilities. See my problem is the girl doesn't want to be with me muchless talk to me and she's 3 states away. My suggestion is talk to people you know and trust and they will give you good advice on what you need to do. It's not the end of the world infact it's a brand new begining. Enjoy! :jointsmile: