look ultimately it is her choice and if she chooses not to terminate then you should stick by her and try to make a go of it, thats what seperates the men from the boys

when it comes to abortion its a bit iffy for me coz i see both sides to the issue,
yes there are some people that SHOULD NOT have kids, crack addicts, paedophiles, etc.
there are woman who were raped and are now pregnant, i understand why they wouldnt want a reminder of the rape for the rest of their lives
and of course there are some situations where the pregnancy can make the mother sick, to the point where she may die, in that case even the bible (old testament, not sure if this is negated by the new testament though...... you may wanna look that up) agrees that the baby may be aborted to save the mother

having said that you must remember that an abortion is still killing the baby, it is murder, i agree with the anti abortion people on that point, so you gotta ask yourself, can you justify the murder of a baby?

also remember, for you the idea of an abortion may be easy to think of, we are guys so are not as connected to the child as the woman may be, it will be VERY difficult for her, so if she is pregnant and she does decide to abort, you need to be by her every step of the way

goodluck man, i hope for your sake it is a false alarm