People call abortion murder but couldn't pulling out be considered "a preliminary abortion"?

It's such a grey area, bottom line is if you and your gf are under 18 GET ONE. You ain't ready, don't make the kid suffer. My friend had a kid when he was still in highschool, he sees it every so often when he isn't doped out of his mind on X, Weed, cough syrup, shrooms and everything that comes in pill form. It's sad. You CAN'T plan out a life at your age and therefore your kid will be going into an unstable world and probably end up with your parents (if they're cool) or in a foster home. Both ways suck. I'm not knocking anyone who's anti-abortion, I understand why but I personally care more about the welfare of LIVING children than globs of pre-life goo.