Well my girlfriend is probably pregnant...

[Skink]

gifted with intelligence.

Um...

J/K

[suhl]

abort the little fella.

[Its a Plant]

Um...

J/K

HA HA FOR REAL.

And it's not actually considered a child until the pregnancy is past like the 2nd trimester, so technically it's still an unborn fetus, and thus not living. You can't kill something that hasn't been born.

I'm definitely pro-choice, but I'm also pro-accepting responsibility for mistakes made, so you have a tough choice to make if she is carrying another life.

Hope all works out, and I know you'll do the right thing, whatever that is. ~

[suhl]

i dont see how you can say it should be all up to the woman about abortion, if she was for keeping it and just decided to keep it knowing the man said he couldnt and wouldnt be able to support it, then shell be coming to the man for support. it should be a mutual decision if women did absolutely all raising and supporting of the kid then it should be all their choice. but they dont

[Storm Crow]

Here's hoping it's just the stomach flu or mono. Get her to a doc or buy a home pregnancy test. If she isn't pregnant, you two better have a SERIOUS talk about birth control, ASAP! If she is pregnant, you have a number of choices. (1) You can be a total ass and dump her. (2) you can an ass and dump her, but give her child support. (3) Things can go on pretty much as before with you two just sleeping together and baby makes three, with you paying child support. (4) You can get married and try to make a go of it. (5) adopt the child out. I have a half sister who was adopted out (scandal time!) and she is very happy in her life- a loving family, an upper class life, A-1 education, etc. She had it WAY better than I did! Open adoptions allow the birth parents to keep in touch. (6) have an abortion. This option is the saddest, but every child born should be guarenteed a loving, prepared and stable home. I have seen abortion both save, and in a few cases, ruin the lives of the young women who had them. It all depends on the psychological make-up of the woman. I'm still hoping it's a virus of some sort! - Granny

[harris7]

I am very anti-abortion.

I had a 1 in 2000 chance of being not being born a vegatable. Three docters stood around my mom in a cramped room telling her that it is pointless to go through with the pregnacy, that I was going to have spinal bifeda(sp?). My spinal cord wouldn't connect to my brain or something.

She didn't have the abortion, and here I am, gifted with intelligence.

Why should you kill an innocent unborn child for a mistake you made?
Makes no sense to me.

well i'm pro-choice

the question to me is: does this guy have the right to bring a child into this world to live a sub-standard life.

of he keeps the kid. there going to be poor and it will be very difficult to go to school.

if he waits 10 more years then has a kid, that kids going to live a much better life.

so if you consider the utility of the situation...--

- and well i'm not going to start any debates on whether this person is a person yet.

[GetDown]

look ultimately it is her choice and if she chooses not to terminate then you should stick by her and try to make a go of it, thats what seperates the men from the boys

when it comes to abortion its a bit iffy for me coz i see both sides to the issue,
yes there are some people that SHOULD NOT have kids, crack addicts, paedophiles, etc.
there are woman who were raped and are now pregnant, i understand why they wouldnt want a reminder of the rape for the rest of their lives
and of course there are some situations where the pregnancy can make the mother sick, to the point where she may die, in that case even the bible (old testament, not sure if this is negated by the new testament though...... you may wanna look that up) agrees that the baby may be aborted to save the mother

having said that you must remember that an abortion is still killing the baby, it is murder, i agree with the anti abortion people on that point, so you gotta ask yourself, can you justify the murder of a baby?

also remember, for you the idea of an abortion may be easy to think of, we are guys so are not as connected to the child as the woman may be, it will be VERY difficult for her, so if she is pregnant and she does decide to abort, you need to be by her every step of the way

goodluck man, i hope for your sake it is a false alarm

[GetDown]

well i'm pro-choice

the question to me is: does this guy have the right to bring a child into this world to live a sub-standard life.

of he keeps the kid. there going to be poor and it will be very difficult to go to school.

if he waits 10 more years then has a kid, that kids going to live a much better life.

so if you consider the utility of the situation...--

- and well i'm not going to start any debates on whether this person is a person yet.

earlier this year on Today Tonight (its an Australian Current Afairs program) they had a report on a kid who was 13, hid 16 yr olf girl friend had the baby, dumped it on him and left (ill try to get a link to the story for you) he has raised the kid for the past couple of years with the helop of his mum, he is now in school, keeping up good grades and the child is healthy and happy, there is always a way to help a child, even if he doesnt think he can raise it there is always adoption, the advantage over the abortion is that the child gets to live, maybe one day years from now if youre having regrets you can even see it, you might even be able to reach an agreement with the foster parents to let you babysit and keep a close eye on the child. of course doing this means going through a very difficult couple of months,

[dopeboy703]

dam man i know like 4 girls in my school that are pergnet as of now! and 1 of those girl has already delivered her baby. she and her boy friend are currently go to school and working just to support there baby. the baby stays with there grandma when they in school n at work. and there the same age as you guys. think long and hard make sure you and your girl friend make a decision before going with the abortion. and dont let any other people tell you to go ahead n stick with the abortion. remember you and your girl friend has to make a decision were you and her agrees on it. good luck man.

[smoke it]

get the abortion done dude. if she dosent want it done, tell her not to expect any help from you with the kid