thinking of comming out of the weed closet.....

[Harvest Ethics]

Don't. People aren't ready.

[smokin dope]

its the best idea to be real with yourself and family, make sure they know you a fuckin pot head, and if they dont like it, fuck them

[Reefer Rogue]

If you think they'll handle it well, then tell them.

[orangeman]

Lol you're 20 yrs old. You should have been told them. I think you should just tell them and what ever happens, happens. You're an adult now and it's time to take responsibility for your self. Just remember to remind them of their past memories of you, even from weeks ago. They probably never knew you were smokin weed..why? Because it doesn't effect your life like actual life destroying addictive drugs do.

[smokin dope]

^exactly

[madeline]

Ask yourself this, "What good will it do?". Those close to you probably have already smelled it on your breath, clothes and car and at the very least suspect you're involved or will know soon enough so why bother? The less of a big deal you make it the less it'll be for others.

Don't rock the boat, baby...

[TresLeches]

You should start the "talk" out like this...Look, Mum, dad...uhhhh I have something serious to talk to you about. For like, several years now I have been smoking crack and snorting coc off of prostitutes. After they sh** their pants, you can then tell them that you smoke weed and that you really don't smoke crack or snort coc off of prostitute's asses. Then...it won't be so bad. I don't see how this couldn't work

[fikusroot]

me and my parents have a mutual agreement. basically its not 100% tolerated cause thay kinda know and like i can get baked in my room without getting in trouble but they just dont want to catch me in the act

Im in the same situation. Although Ive been smoking so infrequently and have been so quiet about it I think they've decided I just up and stopped.

[RyanTheCaveman]

Just tell them that they can live to be 120 by smoking marijuana~!

hahah!

Yeh but i dont know...-your 20 so i think your amture enough to tell them. and you seem to be doing reasonably good. so...yeh.

[GetDown]

thanks for all the advice guys, im so far leaning towards telling them, though i know they will definately freak, they are really against drugs,

ive applied for a job at a videostore, if i get it im gonna save up and move out into my own place asap, so itll be no longer necesary to tell them, if i dont get it, or dont get any other type of work i will probably have to tell them, they might kick me out for a few days, but they do need me, my mum needs me to do laundry, dishes, make beds and do alot of otherstuff she has trouble doing these days, and my dad needs me to help him do his accounting, type up his emails and organize his business, he cant afford to hire a pro to do all that coz theyd charge him way too much, so at most i might have to crash at a mates place for a few days before they call me to move back in...... theyd obviously demand me to quit but ill just take a stand and say no.....