First, sue his ass! He has done property damage- will his next girlfriend get even worse from him? Time to nip his bad behavior in the bud BEFORE he hurts someone. Judges often order anger management courses and he needs one! You'd be doing some poor gal out there a big favor! And you gals can do better than the two clowns (I used a different word but editted it) you had before. Check out the male opinion about women growers- there's been a few threads on it-they think we're sexy as can be! You gals ought to be able to find a DECENT grower/toker out there! They seem to outnumber us 5 to one on this board. So you can pick and chose!