hurt about a boy

[bentleygtgirl]

so im 20 years old and i know im too old to cry about this, but there was this super intelligent, polite, kind cute guy i liked, and he started to like me back and we talked on the phone a lot, even when i went home for thanksgiving break. we made out twice but never had sex because i wanted him to be my boyfriend not just some other guy. but whatever, after break he never returned my calls or anything so i was like hm i guess he's over me, but i had that hope that maybe he was just busy or something. well i see him today and this girl comes out of her dorm and gives him a hug and i knew it was like a close hug and so i start to walk away (he was coming over cuz i was giving him some stuff back) and so then we sit and talk for awhile, then i see him tonight and im like what are u doin and hes like "talkin' to jessica (name changed)" and he said it all happy and i was lilke okay so then i was gonna sit by him cuz this girl was gone and then she came out of the door and sat by him and i just walked away.

so then i called him tonight and he said he had just got back from hanging out with her and i was like so are u guys just friends or goin out or what and he was like well not goin out but i dunno, i just have so much in common with her, more than any other girl i've ever met and she thinks deep like me and i was like well ill let you go write your paper now.

im so sad. this really sucks because i think im a smart female that is attractive but im always the friend or the girl they just fool around with or smoke with or the one they get homework help from and bitch about their girl problems and i never have a boyfriend. i always get passed over. im crying about this and i dont even know why. this girl is a super good girl that doesnt smoke or drink or anything. i hate it. im sad and i just wanted to vent. sorry.

bentleygtgirl Reviewed by bentleygtgirl on 12-07-2006. hurt about a boy so im 20 years old and i know im too old to cry about this, but there was this super intelligent, polite, kind cute guy i liked, and he started to like me back and we talked on the phone a lot, even when i went home for thanksgiving break. we made out twice but never had sex because i wanted him to be my boyfriend not just some other guy. but whatever, after break he never returned my calls or anything so i was like hm i guess he's over me, but i had that hope that maybe he was just busy or Rating: 5

[Its a Plant]

Aww, don't feel bad. If he couldn't see you for you, then he probably wasn't worth the time.

I know a girl that's kind of like you, too. She's always either a buddy to someone or just an ear to lend. Only I think she chooses to be like that for fear of getting hurt...something like that anyways. But I do feel for you b/c it can't be easy never gettin' any LOVE.

All I can suggest is that you surround yourself with new faces so you're not still just a smoking buddy to all your other friends. Time will do its thing and heal your heart, so keep your head up and move on down the road. Forget about him.

The sea is large, and there are PLENTY of fish. Some fishermen(and women) wait years and years before they land the catch of the year. PATIENCE.

Much love. ~

[PdoubleOTY]

judging from your profile picture and your general attitude in the post....that guy is a fucktard and doesnt know a good thing when it is in front of his face..if all else fails, come smoke a blunt with me and have a good time :thumbsup:

you'll find someone someday

[crudemood]

His loss. I know it probably hurts alot and nothing can heal pain better than a few drinks, lots of good food and time.
You can't control how he feels, that hurts, I know.
You're a great girl, you have to know it too. Its too bad he doesnt see it in you, that doesn't mean its not true.
I'm going to say it again, totally his loss. You did all you could do but in the end it was his choice, a bad choice I must say.
I hope you feel better and don't let this getyou down too much alright?

[fikusroot]

Why are you wearing your iPod earphones in you profile picture? And is it that bright inside your house that you have to wear sunglasses? Think about these questions young grasshopper, and you will find the answer to all of your guy problems.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

It's okay, keep your head up.

There will be plenty more and you know it...

[bentleygtgirl]

Why are you wearing your iPod earphones in you profile picture? And is it that bright inside your house that you have to wear sunglasses? Think about these questions young grasshopper, and you will find the answer to all of your guy problems.

oh so thats why ive only had one boyfriend ever, who treated me like crap anyway, lol time to ditch the ipod and sunglasses and let the boys roll in lol

[Stemis516]

sweetheart, u sound like a wonderful woman...not to mention the fact that your gorgeous in your profile pic

lets go out sometime?

[MrGreenFingaz]

too bad.. if it makes you feel better you can smoke with me anytime! then ill prob just ditch you though, na jk we could fool around first.

[40oz]

Its just some guy. It doesn't really sound like he's as into you as you are to him. I would say find another man.