I'm in the same boat as you, except I grow my tomatoes out back and I can put mine in a salad Weeds is a great show, but my wife didn't get into it at all so I just watched them on my own. Each DVD consist of several 30 minute shows, however, so it's not a big deal to watch one here or there when she's not around. If you're worried she might see something you don't want her to I'd recommend you do the same.