Quote Originally Posted by napolitana869
I think its hard to really respect someone/ some thing if I fear it. Respect is better when you earn it with good deeds than with intimidation and fear
"Good deeds", lol!

I don't give a damn if a person that has bad intentions "respects" me, or not - they have to be made aware that it's not going to be pleasant for them if they try anything. You don't give violent criminals flowers - unless there's a bomb inside the package.