I can't even begin to say how sorry I feel, I am so sorry babes - be strong, and go with your heart (and I know you are doing).
So many people on here love you and your rounded attitude, firey yet tollerant nature.
It does happen and it's sure as hell happened to me - Jan is wonderful but it's taken me 40 years to find her.
You are caring, sensitive, deep, intelligent, and most of all VERY thoughtful underneath that "Tom-Boy" exterior.

My heart goes out to you, and I shall think of you and your kindness always.

forever your friend and companion in whatever path you should choose from now on.

Love and light - Hall and Jan x x x x