Stinky after your post about the boyfriend returning and stealing from you I had to smile. Isn't it amazing how we push anything negative out of our minds when we miss someone or something? I'd like to personally thank him for reminding you in a big way who he really is.

I have always found (for myself) that if I set aside a period of time--however much time--to grieve--not try to "forget" or ignore it makes things easier later on. When things hurt realize that they hurt because of all your energy and love. That is worth a huge amount which is why it hurts so much. Respect that; don't dismiss it. Take care.