Well breaking up sucks. There is nothing I can say to you to make you feel any better.

However, after having recovered from my divorce I can say to you it is better to have done this now than wait 10 years like I did.

So feel the pain and go on. You are stronger than you think you are. Take some time to get to know yourself again.

I was crushed after my divorce. But I can see a new person within me rising and getting stronger each day.

The same thing will happen to you.