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12-07-2006, 02:40 PM#21
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Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Thanks guys...
Well I'm not weepy anymore after coming home from work last night and discovering that while I was off at my 9 to 5, Jeff was busy in my garden. And I don't mean watering either. He stole the BIGGEST BADDEST plant I have ever grown, a sick Haze cross so covered with crystals it looked like pale green velvet... and I had seeded it with my Afghani male... fucker.
So being rather pissed off I got on the horn with my contacts and just put out the heads up that anything green he's trying to sell was stolen... WHAT A SCUMBAG!!!! I can't believe I was actually SAD to see him go!
Okay. My plans this weekend are:
Tonight- bruschetta and cheap wine with my neighbor
Friday- Beer and college hockey (go UMass!!!! Woot!!! BC Sux!) with my girlfriends. Seriously it's such a fun girl's night out to go to a sports event with no men!
Saturday- I'm prepaying 2 months on a storage unit, renting a UHaul, and putting all Jeff's shit in it.
Sunday- Rearranging my furniture back to the way I like it, with the television NOT the focal point of the living room.
Monday- Going to work and forgetting all about him
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12-07-2006, 02:46 PM#22
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Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
It's always hard to say goodbye and it's even harder to let go. I'm not going to say that I'm sorry for what you are going through because what you are going through is going to lead you to who you are going to be. It's a natural fact that in order to find our prince/princess we have to kiss some toads (and sometimes we love those toads!) but what's most important is what we glean from each relationship, whether at the commencement, in the middle or at its' end. I know that trust isn't easily earned and that to find someone who you can truly trust is a rarity, but you have to trust the fact that as long as you are following your heart you will be led in the right direction. Contradict your heart and you will be torn in two. The road that leads to bliss/peace/nirvana or whatever you choose to call it is different for each person, but the end result, bliss/peace/nirvana, is the same for all of us. Keep focused on whatever it is that truly makes you happy whatever form that happiness takes, (this is what I call 'gathering sparks') and I guarantee that those sparks will lead you to wherever you're meant to be and to whomever you're meant to be with. I hope this helps.
Shit, just read about what he did to you. Don't let him steal your sparks too! Call on the Karma police to arrest the jerk! Peace!Please trip them gently, they don\'t like to fall, oh by jingo. There\'s no room for anger, we\'re all very small, oh by jingo. We\'re painting our faces and dressing in thoughts from the skies, paradise, oh by jingo. Won\'t someone invite them? They\'re just taller children, that\'s all, afterall. Some march together and some on their own, quite alone. Others are running, the smaller ones crawl but some sit in silence, they\'re just older children, that\'s all.
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12-07-2006, 02:52 PM#23
OPSenior Member
Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Originally Posted by HiProGlow
LOL I've always loved that concept.
If I have to kiss any damned toads they'd better be Bufo marinus... all you Aussies know what I'm talking about!!!
Who wants to send me a giant toad for Christmas? I think I NEEED a toad in the house!
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12-07-2006, 03:13 PM#24
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Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
That's the trouble with growing and relationships. If they go bad then you never know what's going to happen. Lucky it wasn't worse like the cops knocking on your door. Anyway it's rotten but at least it's only one plant and you can recover.
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12-07-2006, 03:15 PM#25
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Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Knock on wood... they haven't stopped by... YET. Originally Posted by Perp
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12-07-2006, 03:18 PM#26
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Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
LOL, I just got rid of a giant toad but I highly doubt you'd want her in your house. She isn't psychadelic but she's certainly psychotic. After 7 years together she left me feeling like I'd been on one hell-of-a-bad trip. The only difference being that I came off of this trip with the best daughter a father could ever want....so in a sense my toad led me to the greatest joy I've ever known....fatherhood. Peace.
Please trip them gently, they don\'t like to fall, oh by jingo. There\'s no room for anger, we\'re all very small, oh by jingo. We\'re painting our faces and dressing in thoughts from the skies, paradise, oh by jingo. Won\'t someone invite them? They\'re just taller children, that\'s all, afterall. Some march together and some on their own, quite alone. Others are running, the smaller ones crawl but some sit in silence, they\'re just older children, that\'s all.
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12-07-2006, 04:11 PM#27
Senior Member
Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Man stinky, I hate to hear that. I'm afraid I can't give you any better advice than has already been posted, but you seem like a great person so I'm sure it will all work out better for you in the end. You've definitely been one of the nicest people I've met on these boards, always having something positive and constructive to say, which is why everyone likes you
Just try not and let it get you too down, sounds like with the lying/stealing he didn't deserve a woman like you anyway, so its his loss not yours.
Keep your chin up
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12-07-2006, 11:14 PM#28
Senior Member
Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
funny you should mention it, i have a friend who owns an exotic reptile store... and he does carry marine toads Originally Posted by stinkyattic
love, kp
ps, jeff will get his... of this i'm sure, just wait...
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12-08-2006, 02:45 PM#29
Senior Member
Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Stinky, sorry to hear of your breakup- i was married for 20 years - the last twelve were not my happiest in life- a breakup is hard regardless of what your relashionship is- I do know that my life is much better now- at the time of the divorce you could not have told me that, there was heartbreak and as you there was drama- sounds as if Jeff showed you his true colors by stealing from you - I have known a lot of couples that have seperated and all in time found someone that was a better partner in life -ALL -so keep your spirits up and Believe things will get better-from experience try and stay in spirit and avoid all drama if possible
Best to You
clovisman
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12-08-2006, 03:23 PM#30
Senior Member
Well that's the end of that. I want to cry.
Here Here...What an ass...Hey funny you mention Boston...I lost the love of my life in the 80's after she went to school in Boston. I was playing in the 60's-70's Top 40 band...the "Grass Roots" at the Mill Hill club on Capecod...In Dennis, I think. and I met her. She was sunshine. her name was Bridgett...I have never beeen able to find her. Oh well.
nothing to do with your story, but you reminded me of her with your correspondence. Maybe I took your mind off You know Who.
P.s. the 1st chore on your list should be New Locks, and going to animal shelter to find big lovable "killer puppy, with loud bark. later.peace
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