my girlfriend won't let me smoke weed. the first month or two she didnt say much about it. but after that she wanted me to quit. i quit for a month or two, then she started to back off, she didnt discuss it with me as much, because most of our friends are stoners as well, the topic is brought up frequently, and now, almost 6 months together, i keep it from her that i secretly toke, and i feel like a shitty boyfriend for going behind her back about it.