im going through a similar situation in life, instead i still smoke weed and occassionally drink, but quit doing everything else. ive cut some "friends" out of my life, starting to abandon others. cause these people arent really my friends, just ppl i enjoyed getting fucked up with.

there certainly is more to life than just getting high though. whether they are growing down, im not sure, but you are definitly growing up. how old are you by the way?