What is the right way?

[wayoftheleaf]

Okay let me give you the run-down.

My mom believe in giving me weed every week so that I won't buy it myself. She sees it as preventing me from getting caught, and her parental duty. She tells me that the kid is the one who allows her to allow me to smoke. She thinks that if she didn't approve or give it to me, I'd find it somewhere else(true). She wants me to only smoke in the house as well. Nowhere I could get caught.

Andy(her BF) has a son whom his mother has custody of. He would never give his son weed because it just goes against what he views a parents should do.
He wants me to never smoke, or be high in the house. Or smoke their weed. Which I understand, atleast the their weed, but my mom goes on and on how she doesn't want me to buy. she drills it in my head everyday.

Andy's brother is living with us. He nasty man who is a two faces asshole. He tried to convince them that me, or my friend David, took half a joint out of his ash tray(we didn't). He doesn't shower very often, and steals their weed. He blames it on me when he is alone with them, while being on my side while im around him. He does absolutley nothing in the house(he works a 5 hour shift at mcdonalds washing dishes). When he gets home he sleeps or smokes. He got a fucking allowance from them when he didn't work. And on top of that my mom thinks he is spending a lot of money on crack.

It is causing some strife between my parents. My mom REALLY doesn't want m to buy it myself. And Andy doesnt want me smoking in the house, with their weed, or be high in the house.

What do you think of the situation/what I should do?

wayoftheleaf Reviewed by wayoftheleaf on 12-01-2006. What is the right way? Okay let me give you the run-down. My mom believe in giving me weed every week so that I won't buy it myself. She sees it as preventing me from getting caught, and her parental duty. She tells me that the kid is the one who allows her to allow me to smoke. She thinks that if she didn't approve or give it to me, I'd find it somewhere else(true). She wants me to only smoke in the house as well. Nowhere I could get caught. Andy(her BF) has a son whom his mother has custody of. He would never Rating: 5

[Samwhore]

my dad says the same, he doesnt want to give me pot, but he doesnt want me buying it, but it looks like you somewhat trust your mom, so i would tell her whats up with the d-bag whos stealing bud and you have nothing to hide if your not taking bud from them

[go toke up]

Okay let me give you the run-down.

My mom believe in giving me weed every week so that I won't buy it myself. She sees it as preventing me from getting caught, and her parental duty. She tells me that the kid is the one who allows her to allow me to smoke. She thinks that if she didn't approve or give it to me, I'd find it somewhere else(true). She wants me to only smoke in the house as well. Nowhere I could get caught.

Andy(her BF) has a son whom his mother has custody of. He would never give his son weed because it just goes against what he views a parents should do.
He wants me to never smoke, or be high in the house. Or smoke their weed. Which I understand, atleast the their weed, but my mom goes on and on how she doesn't want me to buy. she drills it in my head everyday.

Andy's brother is living with us. He nasty man who is a two faces asshole. He tried to convince them that me, or my friend David, took half a joint out of his ash tray(we didn't). He doesn't shower very often, and steals their weed. He blames it on me when he is alone with them, while being on my side while im around him. He does absolutley nothing in the house(he works a 5 hour shift at mcdonalds washing dishes). When he gets home he sleeps or smokes. He got a fucking allowance from them when he didn't work. And on top of that my mom thinks he is spending a lot of money on crack.

It is causing some strife between my parents. My mom REALLY doesn't want m to buy it myself. And Andy doesnt want me smoking in the house, with their weed, or be high in the house.

What do you think of the situation/what I should do?

i think thats fucked up. my friend has a crackhead uncle who steals his cousins weed, who he lives with, and blames it on my friend. i know for a fact he smokes crack because my homies cousin sells it to him. imo kick that crackheads ass and tell him to go to mcdonalds to wash more dishes.

[birdgirl73]

OK, assuming you've been candid and truthful about the facts of this story (I read that other thread where you weren't), it seems to me like it's your mom's call since you're her son. If she chooses to buy you weed and endorse your using it at home, which I'm gathering is her home and not the jointly owned/supported home of her boyfriend or his loser brother, then that seems like reason why you should be able to do that. I personally find her choice curious since she's putting herself at risk buying it for you, both with the criminal justice system and from a child custody standpoint if anyone ever found out she was your supplier source. I truly believe that minors whose brains and bodies are still developing ought to refrain from smoking weed, but I know lots of folks here believe differently.

Bottom line is if she supports you and is the sole financial supporter of you in her household, then that ought to be the determining factor. Sounds like Andy has a major loser for a brother and that he's a bit of a hypocrite for wanting you to follow no-weed rules that he himself doesn't follow.

[wayoftheleaf]

I do talk to my mom. But its really wierd and I can't go into it without showing you how dysfunctional my family is. Anyhow, Andy thinks she is lieing about her seeing randy(his bro)in their room. And I know for a fact that I didn't take his joint, and david wasnt even here when he had the joint. I think he smoked it most likely. Or my cat ate it, he did eat a dime of mine before.

Either way, Andy is in a bitchy mood because mom is sick and he thinks she should be able to clean the house with flu, because he won't miss work for being sick.

Andy is the sole-supporter for the household, sadly.

[slipknotpsycho]

i think thats fucked up. my friend has a crackhead uncle who steals his cousins weed, who he lives with, and blames it on my friend. i know for a fact he smokes crack because my homies cousin sells it to him. imo kick that crackheads ass and tell him to go to mcdonalds to wash more dishes.

lol you should tell your friends cousin to stop selling to him.. atleast if he's doing this shit... best damn way to hurt a crackhead is take it away from them.

[go toke up]

lol you should tell your friends cousin to stop selling to him.. atleast if he's doing this shit... best damn way to hurt a crackhead is take it away from them.

his cousin makes mad money from selling that crap. nad the best way to hurt a crackhead is to hit him in the face with a baseball bat. well thats the best way too hurt anyone.

[Samwhore]

his cousin makes mad money from selling that crap. nad the best way to hurt a crackhead is to hit him in the face with a baseball bat. well thats the best way too hurt anyone.

but remember if you take it away from him, he'll end up like tyrone bigguns

"im here for the free crack giveaway"
"there is no crack"
"do we get the crack after?"

[go toke up]

but remember if you take it away from him, he'll end up like tyrone bigguns

"mmmm my favorite peanut butter and crack!" hahaha

[Samwhore]

"mmmm my favorite peanut butter and crack!" hahaha

I LOVE THAT!

"dog food tastes exactly what it smells like DELICIOUS!"


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