Well here's the thing... I asked her a long time ago about her trying weed way before I ever tried it. (At that point I was really against it, and knew a couple kids who were trying it, so I figured I'd ask.)

She told me that at her all girls school there were two guys on her floor that both delt weed and LSD. (Yes, all girl schools will admit guys.) She said one of them was her boyfriend, and that she tried weed. She then told me that she didn't really like it and only did it once...

And about the house thing... I'm gonna get on it and ask a lawyer friend of mine and see what the deal is. Plus, if I come out straight and say in court "I grew the weed, I used it for myself, mom never knew, I hid it from her." etc etc, of course they COULD nail her, but what judge/jury in their right mind would do that?

Plus, she has ZERO priors. The judge/jury would not be serving their purpose of upholding the law if they nailed my mom.