Mom is really confusing me...

[Taiden]

I'm like 100% sure she knows at this point, she is just acting normal... the thing is she asked me how school was going... so maybe that means she's okay with it as long as school is going well?

[Samwhore]

maybe, that what my dad says "as long as this doesnt affect your grades" i can understand that, and hes giving me enough leeway so i do try in school

[Taiden]

WHAT THE HELL

So here's the deal. I'm starting a grow in my closet (save the napalm for later, guys), and I haven't sorted out wiring an outlet inside my closet yet. I have a big, fat, orange extension cord running out under my door to a nearby outlet.

Anyway, I usually chuck some clothes over my cord right next to my dirty clothes bin. When I came home tonight, the bin had been emptied, the clothes all taken away from in front of the closet, and mom was acting normal again.

I DONT GET IT!



PS. Oh, and I'm 18. I waited until I was 18 to grow in my closet so that way I am the one legally at fault, and my parents are not involved in any way.

[yoda]

PS. Oh, and I'm 18. I waited until I was 18 to grow in my closet so that way I am the one legally at fault, and my parents are not involved in any way.

there house, they will be held liable too

sounds like she knows, but doesnt really care since you keep your grades up

[tootsie roll]

I'm like 100% sure she knows at this point, she is just acting normal... the thing is she asked me how school was going... so maybe that means she's okay with it as long as school is going well?

Ok, look, your mom isn't that old and she knows what weed is. More then likely she has smoked it in her lifetime. Maybe she smokes it still and that's why you get away with having the smell in the house; because it smells normal to her. :shrug: It's normal for a mom to ask questions about school and stuff to see what you say to make sure you're ok.
Don't be freaked out by any of this. Seems all is cool at your house.
In fact, the only thing I'd worry about is being a senior smoking out an 8th grader. (or by 4 years did you mean a frosh?)

[tootsie roll]

there house, they will be held liable too

sounds like she knows, but doesnt really care since you keep your grades up

You are correct about the house. The law doesn't care how old someone is. The owner of the home is 100% responsible for what happens under their roof.
(you're prolly correct about the mom too.....wish I could pass you a J thru the screen yoda. )

[tootsie roll]

Take a hint, kid. She wants you to discuss it with her. She wants YOU to bring it up.

Prolly
LOl!

[VoidLivesOn]

Hah you sound just like me before I quit.

Yeah um you're entering the stage obviously known to you as the "lax" stage but it's generally the "fucking up" stage. Where you get to that point in your smoking life where you think your moms to dumb to know or just doesn't care and you just let all that shit go on right under her nose but not directly. Till she gets enough nerve to catch you.

See what it sounds like to me is your mom trusts you. Like never thought her son would do that so why go through his room or go by it to spell it or care?

You're messing up man. Sounds like you smoking was never an authentic thought in her mind till today. I would watch your back if your mom wouldn't enjoy that shit going around in her house and if you respect any amount of trust she has for you.

[aznson01]

i onyl read the original post but it sounds like ur frekin out and she has no idea to me, u are thinking to much about it

[Taiden]

Well here's the thing... I asked her a long time ago about her trying weed way before I ever tried it. (At that point I was really against it, and knew a couple kids who were trying it, so I figured I'd ask.)

She told me that at her all girls school there were two guys on her floor that both delt weed and LSD. (Yes, all girl schools will admit guys.) She said one of them was her boyfriend, and that she tried weed. She then told me that she didn't really like it and only did it once...

And about the house thing... I'm gonna get on it and ask a lawyer friend of mine and see what the deal is. Plus, if I come out straight and say in court "I grew the weed, I used it for myself, mom never knew, I hid it from her." etc etc, of course they COULD nail her, but what judge/jury in their right mind would do that?

Plus, she has ZERO priors. The judge/jury would not be serving their purpose of upholding the law if they nailed my mom.